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Individual & Family Support

Support for families and loved ones affected by addiction

Support for people affected by someone else's active addiction or recovery.

Available online throughout New Zealand, including Auckland, Wellington, Christchurch, Hamilton and Tauranga.

Overview

Support for people affected by someone else's active addiction or recovery. There is no one-size-fits-all rulebook — every family's situation is different, and consultations are shaped around yours.

Sessions help families understand the situation, reduce uncertainty, and consider options; prepare for or facilitate an intervention where appropriate; set healthy boundaries; process the emotional burden; and develop a practical self-care plan.

Who this is for

  • Partners, parents, siblings, children and close friends affected by someone else's addiction.
  • Families supporting a loved one through active use, treatment or early recovery.
  • Anyone feeling uncertain, exhausted or unsure how to help without losing themselves in the process.

What support may include

  • A confidential space to understand the situation and reduce uncertainty.
  • Guidance on options available to you and your family.
  • Support to prepare for, or facilitate, an intervention where appropriate.
  • Help setting healthy boundaries and processing the emotional burden.
  • A practical, personalised self-care plan.

Frequently asked questions

How can I help someone who won't accept they have a problem?

You can't force change, but how you respond makes a real difference. Support for family focuses on clear boundaries, calmer conversations and looking after yourself, so you aren't carrying it alone.

Can I come even if my family member won't?

Yes. Many families start with support for themselves. Your wellbeing matters, and your changes often affect the whole situation.

Is family support only for parents and partners?

No. Adult children, siblings, partners and close friends are all welcome.

If you need urgent help, call 111, or free call or text 1737, or the Alcohol Drug Helpline on 0800 787 797.